7 Things NOT to do in Hawaii

Hawaii is such a unique vacation destination, exquisitely beautiful and brimming with culture. US travelers are rushing to plan their trips there during this time when domestic travel feels "safer."

After all, Hawaii is an exotic, get-away-from-it-all destination that's right here in the good ole USA. There is so much to do in the Hawaiian Islands – a wide range of activities and experiences – however, I'm going to share some essential "Don'ts" to keep in mind when planning your Hawaiian escape:

DON'T try to visit too many islands in too little time!

A Hawaiian vacation shouldn't be hurried, but so many people try to see all five major islands on a 10-day trip. Each time you switch islands, you lose a day packing, checking out of your resort, returning your rental car, arriving early at the airport, stopping at baggage claim, picking up your new rental car, driving to your new hotel, and settling in.

I recommend no more than two islands in a week (focusing on only one is even better!), two islands in 10 days, or three islands in 14 days to enjoy each destination to the fullest.

DON'T turn your back on the ocean!

The Hawaiian locals have the utmost respect for the sea and understand its power. No selfie is worth your life when a rogue wave or unexpected blowhole decides to make itself known.

Enjoy the magnificent waters of Hawaii in a safe and smart way and ALWAYS observe warning signs, flags, and lifeguard's advice. "No Trespassing" means just that. Don't wander onto private land looking for a nice hike.

DON'T pack your stilettos and neckties!

"Formal" attire in the islands means putting on a fresh Aloha shirt and your best flip-flops. Men do not wear ties under normal circumstances, and women can get by with sundresses and sandals.

However, DO remember to bring strong, reef-safe sunscreen and your favorite sunglasses and/or sun hat. The rays can be brutal, and you don't want to ruin your vacation with a killer burn.

DON'T forget to relax and enjoy the island pace!

Life just moves slower in the islands, so adjust your expectations. Never honk your horn unless it is an emergency, and be generous letting locals pass you, merge, or turn into traffic.

If it takes a moment for someone to acknowledge you because they are "talking story" with someone else, take a deep breath and smile. Your turn will come! And a meeting time usually means 10-15 minutes later. Get used to it…you might even relax a little!

DON'T let a luau be the only cultural education you get!

Before you leave for your vacation, do a little reading on the fascinating Hawaiian history and culture. There is so much more to Hawaii than the beach!

Learn some much-used Hawaiian words and make time to attend cultural workshops and classes that are often offered free at the resorts. And, most of all – be respectful of the Hawaiian ways and customs. Even though it's still the USA, you are a lucky visitor.

DON'T eat at a chain restaurant!

Please, do not join the 1-hour wait for that table at the Cheesecake Factory, or stop into Burger King for lunch! You can do that at home. The cuisine in Hawaii is one of the best and most diverse in the world, so take advantage of it!

There is an incredible Food Truck culture with gourmet quality food at reasonable prices. Some local diners/shacks offer the freshest seafood or most rib-sticking plate lunches you will experience.

Farmers' Markets and road stands are everywhere, with freshly baked banana bread, local fruits and veggies, and incredible just-squeezed juices. Eat like a Hawaiian during your stay and you will thank me later!